Jezabel,
I don't know what you found that made you want to run off...but I hope you'll stick around - I think you'll find that our members are pretty friendly
As for your question - I don't think it would matter...I don't see why it would even be an issue for international adoption - as far as domestic goes, each expectant mother will have her own level of comfort regarding children in the family...so it'd be hard to say.
Stick around - I'm sure you'll get some great responses!