because they really do have a great one. I know that with three theres usually an odd one out, and the odd one out would definately be my son, especially until the novelty of a new sister wore off for my 4yo daughter. However, he's only 1 1/2, and I think he'd adjust just fine. I know that the adjustment for my bio kids could be hard, but in comparison they've had a pretty breezy childhood so far. I don't want to damage that, but I think they're secure enough here that any problems would just build character, you know?
) ~paisley