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Originally Posted by evildishrag

And how likely is that to happen? They have been a family since these kids were 4, 5, 6 & 7. That's too bad for her. When the going gets tough... She's stuck and should suck it up and find a way to make it work. So now these teenagers are going to rot away in separate foster homes, likely lose contact with each other and their other siblings with willowhawk all because after 9 years this woman is washing her hands of them. So sad.

So let's see. Out of these 7 adopted children, interesting how willowhawk's 3 have overcome their problems and grown into wonderful people and yet the other family is having such problems. Poor parenting.

Do you have a RAD child? I have a baby RAD'ish and I lived the hell of working through his behaviors for almost 2 years...please come spend a day at the home of a parent of a RAD child...you can NEVER, EVER understand until you have spent time in our homes...in our shoes. I describe a good day in my house like this...to nonRAD parents...take your worst day as a parent...multiply by 1000...that is a GOOD day at my house. And my baby RAD'ish is only 2.5 years old.

Do you watch your child to see if they are trying to harm or kill your family dog? Do you make sure that your other, older child is not being abused by your toddler? Do you look at your child and wonder how a 27 pound baby can have so much rage and anger? Have you ever been scratched in the face so hard by your toddler that you have bled? How about kicked, punched, spat at? How many bruises do you sustain per diaper change.

Let me tell you...if and I pray to God this never happens...if my son becomes a danger to my daughter or himself...or me...I will do what I have to to protect my family!

You are blessed if you have never lived with one of these kids and can't understand the depth of their illness...but those of us who can understand...understand exactly how this happened.

Why is it so easy to be so mean to others? So, so sad.