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It's very difficult to turn down a referral. Especially hard after feeling this could have been your child. I had to do this due to the IA doc also giving a referral of ours a concerning evaluation. Fortunately, the agency did let me know that another family adopted that child...so I know she was meant to be theirs. We went on to adopt our wonderful daughter and so I feel things worked out for the best. I'm sure they will work out best for you and that little baby too. That child must be meant for another family and your child is waiting for you. Hang in there. It took us over 2 years to find our daughter and when it happened we knew she was the right one for us.
LilyMoon
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