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Well the trip went well to see birthmom. she wanted to see us first then we asked if she would like to see baby and she said she would call us if she decided and she did we meet and she said baby was so cute and and she didnot ask to hold baby so i asked her and she did and it went well. I was scarred and I felt so sick to my stomach driving to meet. I was scarred but it went well. I called her a week or so after and I asked her how she felt and she said to see baby so happy and us happy she smiled for seveal days after. That made us feel good. Now I want to know if when the babys first birthday comes in several months should I send a gift to birthmom??? I know that she does not ask about baby but I don't want her to think we forgot her on that special day and I don't want to upset her either. She has only asked about the baby a few times since baby birth 7 months and I don't want to upset her. So any advice to sent gift or not would be great. Thanks.