I am a proud mommy to my two beautiful children. I have a 7 year old son, and a 13 month old daughter.
One of them is adopted. But don't ask me who. I can't remember.
There is absolutely no diference in the bond/connection/attachment/love I feel for either of them.
Being that I have experienced both sides of the coin, I can honestly say it's all about the bond created by love & care.
So in answer to your question, YES you WILL feel that connection. Soon enough you will see a special relationship form between you and YOUR baby.