[blessedbybug]

To me, the timing seems perfect... if I understand right your DD has been with you for a year, a completely adequate amount of time to really bond together. And your addition would be just a little over one??? That's is great spacing for two kiddos. But that's me... you have to do what is best for your family. Any addition is scary... but I say go for it!! These kind of opportunities seem like open doors to me...