[ej-momtobe]

Hilery,

Think of the benefits of not going through pregnancy...no morning sickness, no stretch marks, no saggy boobs from nursing. I know I sound materialistic or shallow by saying this, (my first choice too was to get pregnant, but that didn't happen) but to me the pregnancy itself never sounded like it would have been much fun. You can celebrate your expected child, the same as a pregnant woman is celebrating her expected child....you can just have a cocktail while you are celebrating!