Thanks Karen and everyone else so far! Yes - we've been home less than 2 months. I guess my main issue is - is she being willful or is it attachment related? Because depending on which it is my reaction should be different correct? She has def attached more to me than to DH. However, my husband tells me that when I am not around she is perfectly fine and plays by herself. When I come in the room she is crabby and complaining - but not necessarily reaching to me for comfort. So....???? Is it her "testing" as above or does she just hate my guts?

Is she looking for comfort or something else? Or perhaps she is just trying to control me?