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Old 01-22-2006, 01:05 PM
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Its ongoing and there will be new triggers that will have to be dealt with. We have been home about a year and half and I am still very strong with the attachment parenting and the primary caregiver stuff. Adrian has had very few issues but he still backslides with his reactions every once in a while so I keep a careful watch for new triggers that will provoke some sort of reaction that is not normal for him when he is secure. Christmas time and all of the over stimulation set us back about a week in his behavior and I could tell he was insecure and feeling out of control because it was not his normal routine. For myself, I just will not put him in a situation that I know will make him insecure or uncomfortable so I watch and learn from our history. I know there will be issues when there are major changes in our lives as well and we will try to prepare him and then be there for him if he has a hard time dealing with the changes. But, I know it will be ongoing.
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