Originally Posted By
Pam
they swear she is the only therapist who had done their kids any good. I found her to be excellent, caring, concerned and on target about Rayon and she gave me advice that I can actually really use. His worker in Delaware, who has custody, talked to us today and gave us the thumbs up. I understand Rayon and how to handle him much more than I did before, so I feel more in control. We had a good morning. He got dressed and in the car on time and got out of the car to go to school with no problem. He even talked to me a lot on the way to school. He did NOT have Evergreen type full blown attachment holding therapy. Before I'd ever do that, I'd have to check it out completely.....and even then I'd have reservations. This was more a combination of hugging, holding and talking (at least she GOT him to talk a little!). But traditonal talk therapy won't work for Rayon. He was in that all his life and nobody got anything out of him. At any rate, I'm going to not talk about how it's going here for a while because I truly don't want to scare other people...kids like Rayon needs home and love more than any kids. When things are going good, then I'll write. I am confident that this adoption will work out, and everyone in the family loves this adoreble little boy very very much. THanks for the input
