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I wouldn't change one thing. I knew without doubt that my son was to be with his adoptive parents. I couldn't give him the life that he was entitled to. I put him first. I am reunited with my son now, and we have a wonderful relationship. He needs me in his life just as he needs his adoptive mom. He told me that from as young as he can remember he has always wanted to find me, his adoptive parents supported his search. I knew that he would find me one day. I now have something in my life that I had always hoped for. I am blessed.
A very wise woman (Birthmom also) said this to me:
"I was a teenager who found herself pregnant - chose adoption - struggled with the loss yet went on to have a good life with husband and further children, and waited years for my son to contact me. The results of that contact are amazing and prove that sometimes the hardest decisions have beautiful endings."
I couldn't of said it better if I had written it. She says it all for me.
Susan 1987
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