bumblebeeskies
1. Support your friend every step of the way.
2. Tell her daughter that she will make a wonderful mother.
3. Offer her the use of your baby-gear
4. Don't ever be judgemental of anothers decisions.
5. This is her choice so honor her for being self-less.
6. With a young family your help will be invaluable.
I don't think you were being selfish. I think you are acting like the parent of a pregnant teen - panicing. As you know babies are hard work, but they are also such a blessing and bring joy into a household. If mothers with husbands and young children can complete their schooling or work full-time, there is no reason why this young woman cannot do the same - with support from family and friends. Just be there as a friend.
Ann
