I believe that what you posted was
way out of line!
You want to know what I got out of your post from reading "between the lines"?
You want her baby! Your post wouldn't have been so bad, if I hadn't already known that you have two adopted children!
You stated:
So now she is pregnant. The father is a high school drop out loser. She is planning on keeping the baby (who by the way will be biracial).
That comment reminded me of gossippy women sitting around and someone whispering,
"if that's not bad enough, the child will be half black"
However, you don't really want to "support" her as you titled your post, you want to talk her into giving it up for adoption-How convenient for you BTW. Do you have no regard to what adoption does to people? If she has chosen to keep her child, and can do so adequately, why instead plead with her to change her mind? Do you really want to see your friend's daughter go through years of pain and heartache? What if in 16 or 17 years it was your daughter?
I commend her mom in being supportive of her wanting to keep the baby. I'm sure that it wasn't news she was expecting to hear, but at least she is truely being supportive-Not plotting in her head about how to get her daughter to give her child up for adoption!
As for you, I think I'd probably be banned if I said what I actually thought of you.
