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the downer for me is wondering and worrying about dd's bmom. Her bdad I think is coping just fine. bmom is in a bit of denial I think, and I know it will come back and bite her on the butt when she least expects it. I want to be there for her, but know it's probably not my place at this time. It's really hard to watch someone you care about and know that she'll have some tough times, if not now, then later, when she has more children, or at some other point when it really hits her.
I just worry about her.
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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