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I sympathize. A tired cranky 5 year old who also has a problem with defiance would not be a fun end to a day.
My suggestions would be to remember to give your dd choices (I'm not sure what would be good choices for getting out of the bath, maybe something like 'do you want to splash around twice more or three times more?', 'do you want to be dried off with the green towel or the blue towel?'), and remember to reassure her of your love ('I love you and love spending time with you, but now its bed time'), recognize her feelings ('you don't want to get out of the bath', 'you wish you could stay up late').
I remember one thread someone asked experienced parents what they wish they'd known, and one mom said she wished she'd made more allowance for the effects of hunger and tiredness in her children. I have gotten so much benefit from that bit of wisdom.
I tried to propel my dd toward her bedroom once, and got very much the same reaction you got. I have not made that mistake again! ha
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