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Originally Posted by Zoe_B
I've seen this before, and can't understand how people can play by the rules, while fostering....then suddenly when they adopt, think its okay to assult their kids. We try and teach kids to be gentle and oppose violence, yet our actions condone hitting and violence.
I'm sorry to be rude, and i hate to judge people...but I think this is one issue that gets me riled up the most (with my own parents included).
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He didn't hit our son. I it was what he wanted to do. He was still mad at that point, and once he calmed down was ready to talk. I can understand why it crossed his mind: he was angry and scared and in situations like that you tend to revert back to what you grew up with.
What I need is an idea for a consequence