I should add that I was kinda scared too. we had a great life pre-kid, so what were we doing? then she arrived and yes, i cried when the nanny showed up 6 weeks later and it meant I could finally get a nap, lol, but really it's great. I knew I was smitten when during that first six weeks when dd had colic, milk allergy and severe constipation I realized that yes, i really want another one! can't explain it, it just is what it is. it does change things, but if things were good before, then they just get better  .
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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