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I'm a birth son, and met my bio mother after searching for her years ago, but I was a teenager, in my state you can be a teenager and search and I did (19). Anyways, wow, I was young, and age can make a difference on what to say. I had a lot of processing to do just understanding that my bio mother was married with three kids ahead of me, not to my bio father who was also married to someone else and had three kids, and 1/2 siblings, blended families, divorce and & and------- so, we all do grow up, but I appreciated the love, like at my birthday, a birthday wish, although in time I did concern myself with my bio mother, and balanced a relationship with my a mother and bio mother, strange to people as that may seem, but I appreciate sometimes simple messages of love.
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