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Thank you so much for your response. Sorry about the lack of certain details. I tried to put as much as I could in the post without it being truly identifying. I don't want him to come across this site and be able to identify the post. That is definately not the way to tell him anything.
I can say that he is in his early teens. However, his parents will probably not give him the letter right now. They told me they would put it away and give it to him at the right time. So I don't know how old he will be when he gets the letter.
Unless he contacts me later, and he will know all the ways he can do so, this is my one and only chance to give him any information. His aParents decided long ago that they needed the space to raise him and cut off contact. I do want to respect that.
Given your thoughts on the amount of information he recieves at first, maybe I should send a couple of letters with the package. That way his parents can give him the first one and then any additional information/letters when he wants them. Anyone have thoughts on this?
I cannot believe how incredibly confusing this all is for me. I can understand my emotional state, but I am also fighting with myself at times over what I am going to write his parents. I will be sending them a letter too, that goes with the package. I am afraid to ask too much, but I would love to have someway to communicate with them in the future, especially if my children wish to write him after they are told. It has always been my intention to tell them when they are old enough. I don't want them to be blindsided down the road if he decides he wants to meet us. Besides, I see no reason to hide him or my past decisions.
Kind of got off track there. I seem to go off on tangents easily right now. I'm not sure if that answered your questions or not. Again, thank you for your response. I really appreciate it.
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