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Old 01-07-2006, 06:53 PM
Jackiejdajda Jackiejdajda is offline
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Originally Posted by rapunzel_001

I have decided to try one more time to communicate my feelings. I want her to know that I do not want her to come to graduation and I don't want the type of relationship she wants. But I don't want to crush her and I do want her to know that if she can respect my needs, I can remain open to some sort of relationship. But I am not open to an instant relationship based on biology. I want to grow as friends the way any other strangers might get to know each other over time. I feel like this might be an impossible thing for her.



No is a wonderful word.. Some will say that some of us do not learn it in childhood.. Not allowed to say no.. or..

“NO.. I won’t..”

I can remember walking around the house saying “NO!” over and over… what fun that was..

She may lose you.. I hope and pray you get that across to her..

Jackie
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