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My decree is so "vague"...saying that both my ex and I can reside wherever we may...but then an atty did tell me that because the decree is in the "home state" even though the kids and I haven't lived in that state for 3 years now(NOTE: We hadn't lived in that state 2 yrs when the divorce was granted) but they said as long as ex lives in that state it's the home state..now how fair is that?..that I will have to transfer the case. But won't the judge take into account the fact that my ex doesn't even call or make contact for holidays (Christmas ect...) I mean come on now! He doesn't have any relationship with the kids by his own choice. Over the years I have tried to keep the contact going even sometimes begging him to call them back when he says he will...but he doesn't...that doesn't do anything but hurt in my opinion. They finally have a father who is there for them and who does the things that fathers do. My husband's family is great with them...and love them as though they were his biological children. I'm happy at the fact that we are all together...but my next thing is just trying to get this adoption if we can.
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