I'll see how the next email goes and then throw that in. I'm not afraid of talking to her, in fact I would like to. I'm afraid of being pushy. This is the most important decision this young lady has ever and will ever make. I want to respect her time line and comfort level. In our previous match I was surprised at how easy the phone convesations went, it was a good experience for a failed match!
I'll let you know how things progress!
Thanks for the advice.