[wenrl]

Do you floss daily? Eat lots of garlic and onions, but hate gum and breath mints? Wear deodorant? I didn't notice any mention of dental hygene or breath and body odor, so I'm going to assume you have bad teeth and smell like a sweaty horse. You might want to look into that.

Seriously though, waiting is the worst! I too am obsessed. We are waiting for an older "special needs" girl and were told it would be fast this time. We waited two years for our first daughter. I thought fast was two or three months, maybe less. I thought our family would be complete by the holidays. Well, it's not. I don't know what fast is, but this process is anything but fast.

I check my email constantly and no matter how long we waited before or how long we've been waiting now without one single call ever (we did all the calling to get matched the first time), I still think every call is THE call and get bummed that it's just AT&T again or the wrong number or even a friend or family member. How dare they give me a brief milisecond of hope only to have it come tumbling down! If your not calling about our second child, don't call us, we'll call you! The worst is when someone from the City or State calls because then I really think is is Social Services, but alas, it's usually my daughter's school.