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Hi Em!
Your post was sad but cracked me up at the same time, with the description of you and DH.
There's nothing wrong with you, as far as I can tell. In fact, you seem like a lovely family. Does your agency give you specifics on who is looking at your profile? We are always told if a pbmom looks at our profile and if she chooses someone else, what the deciding factor was. For example, the last time the pbmom wanted a religious couple, so we didn't fit the bill. You know, that kind of thing. Or she wanted a childless couple, so that ruled us out.
I'm guessing you have not put a lot of specifics on what you're open to. Our agency said you can expect a longer wait if you specify only being open to healthy caucasian male infants for example. But in your post you say that you are open to more different situations than most, so you would think that would make you even easier to place with.
So honestly, I don't know why this would take so long. It's definately something I'd discuss with your agency caseworker.
Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but I do truly believe that your baby is still out there and will find you when the time is right.
Simone
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