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I was adopted at two months old and my parents always read to me and talked to be about it when I was an infant so I always knew. You need to do it now so that it will not be tramatic for the child to learn and feel liked to. I distinctly remember having thoughts about adoption when I was 2 or 3 years old knowing clearer than most adults what it meant...my parents did not physically create me but they chose to have a family and they chose to have a daughter (they already adopted my brother 5 years earlier) and that they waited years for me. Good luck and congrats.
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