Christina, thanks for the link, I will have to read it and see what others have said. It is funny you should mention about what if...... my husband said the same thing last night. That is the reason he is holding back bringing our older daughter. My reason is our youngest has never been away from us for more than one night and i'm worried how she would be if the three of us went and she was left behind with my sister and her family. This is so hard for us to decide (we have lots of time, we probably won't be DTC until April). I know this would be a great opportunity for our older daughter, but not if it is at the expense of our younger daughter.
Cindy