[mommy3]

I tried to maintain the attitude you have throughout our wait, as well. I tried so hard to tell myself "that wasn't our story" and move on, allowing grieving if it came. This August, I had my office phone in one hand, accepting the news that the pbmom we had been matched with for 4 mos had decided to parent at birth and my cell phone in the other, answering a call from our facilitator that a pbmom wanted us to adopt her baby. That little girl is now in my arms and in my heart, born the day after T-giving. Don't stop believing! You only want the right situation and this one might be it. I'll keep you in my thoughts, as so many people did during our wait this fall. susan