[pinkheart]

All of the info is great but what if the birthmom dosen't want the baby to know her as a birthmom. At least this stage in birthmom life she doesnot want baby to know her as her birthmom . She calls herself her cousin. I don't want to angry birthmom and i never want to lie either to baby. I will talk to birthmom at some pt. to just call her by her first name not cousin" ",,So when I'm telling baby about birthmom I will tell her she loved her very much and was not able to parent her at that stage in her life and she loves you very much. I would love to have a picture of birthmom is room but I have to respect birthmom.