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I am Bek and I have a 5 year old bio daughter and a 15 month old adopted son. Our relationship is very open. We don't have a signed contract, but have a moral contract. We know her other children really well and even came to her wedding in the summer. So far my son is the only child that she placed (she has another one after him), and this is all the more reason to be comitted to an open relationship with her family.
The amount of contact has fluctuated. Right now, we are in a "less contact" phase. I imagine that it will change according to the stages of life that we are in. All of our choices are to do what is best for my son and his bio brothers. It isn't always easy, but it is what we felt was the only option for our family.
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