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I didn't visit with my second adoption. I had four kids at home, one who was adopted at age 3 less than a year before. I knew I couldn't leave all of them twice, especially the 3yo who had such a very rough transition.
I picked up my 7mo old son this past August and it went just fine. I have no regrets about not being able to visit. It was right for our situation.
Good luck!
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Johnna
Mom to three bios, ages 14, 11, 8
One Salvadoran sweetie, 4 (Referred 11/02-home 10/04),
One Guatmalan prince, William, 1 (Referred 2/05-home 8/05),
And our homegrown princess, Julianna, born 10/07
Yes my life is better left to chance
I could have missed the pain
but I'd of had to miss the dance
Garth Brooks, The Dance
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