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Old 12-28-2005, 08:02 PM
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Did you visit with your first adoption, but not with your second?

Anyone in this same boat??
We are sooo torn whether or not to visit Migel-(this is our second adoption)!
Even though its been a year and a half later, and EVEN though Meeah has been HOME for over a YEAR, I STILL cry when I think about when we had to leave her!! I get the same feelings rushing back whenever I think about it!!
So, that is one reason we are on the fence. Another reason is that I have IBS , and its a 3-5 hour ride out to the orphanage and I get VERY nervouse and anxieous in cars and new places, which triggers the IBS. And lets just say rest stops are few and far between in Guatemala...
On the other side, I made it through when we visited Meeah, I'm sure I can do it again. And obviously being able to see my child is a + .
So, did anyone not visit with there second and really regret it?
Or any words from the wise?
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Erin
Meeah
dob 7/11/04, dor 7/15/04
dna 8/13, results 8/23
preapproval 9/1
enter pgn 10/5,KO 10/19, reenter 10/21, OUT 11/5
Submitted for Pink 11/23, PINK 11/29
Traveled 12/1, Home 12/3
Migel
10/05/05 I-600A in the mail
11/8 Homestudy to INS
11/10 REFFERAL! Born 10/17!!
12/23 Enter family court
12/24 I 171H recieved!
1/13 DNA a match!! (taken 1/5)
1/20 Enter pgn
1/31 pre approval!!
3/9 OUT!!
3/21 submitted for pink
3/23 PINK!
3/31 appointment
4/4/06 HOME
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