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I'd try to get counseling. I am dealing with 2 boys ages 2 and 4 who have moved about 4 times plus been in respite care numerous times while living with previous foster family. My 4 yr old has some anger management issues we are dealing with and I have a counselor coming out in 2 weeks to start therapy- not only for him but for us to learn how to handle this. He is cognitively delayed and a fost-adopt placement so I need some skills if we do adopt and I am going to survive until 18.
I think sometimes everyone focuses on getting the children help but they don't think to get themselves help as well.
Give yourself plenty of hugs and hang in there- I'm going to tell you what everyone tells me - it will get better.
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