[AdrienneG]

Thanks AwaitingBeloved for sharing. I think he heard many voices in utero because he heard his birth mother's voice and even he heard 50 Cents's voice (i know! i know!birth mother is a fan, said she admires how he overcame a lot of struggles in his life) heard his birth grandmother's voice and his cousins and his aunts' voice as well and heard my voice even before he was born I think that is why he's so comfortable with all of us.

I cherish that he had that...time with his birth mother when he came into the world from her womb.

I'll be okay with breaking my own rules... I guess I was commenting on how life throws unexpected surprises your way and that I just have to adjust to those surprises...and bending or breaking my own rules in order to give him what he needs is what I ended up doing...and thats okay...i expected parenting to be in itself important on-the-job-training