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We are not foster parents yet but should be shortly after the new year. We have decided to not expect our extended family to treat them as our children. Some have already shown that they do not want to. If they want to be Aunts and Uncles and gps then we will encourage it and call them as such. If not then they will be addressed as Mr or Mrs. Smith or Miss Jane. I figure they will miss out not the fc. We cannot force others to take foster kids as their own relatives. If we would adopt then we will expect it or we will not be a part of their lives anymore. I don't think it would happen if we were to adopt. Merry Christmas ~diane
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