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Old 12-20-2005, 01:51 PM
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OOOOOOOPPPPPS.....ANYWAYS, I THINK LEASTOFTHESE IS RIGHT, i think alot of these kids are use to being shifted and moved, no one askes these kids what they want, they really don't have choise's, when they are removed they can't just say i want to go home and go, so they just deal.

And some deal by never letting you know how they fill. I just had a boy moved from my foster home to a pre adopt home, I talked to him about it for a week in advance, he never let on like it mattered.
He told me, its ok, ive been in 3 other homes. And never said another word no matter what we said.

These children have a way of coping that i don't think anyone other then a fosterchild can understand.

Let her know your there if she wants to let you know how she fills, and maybe you could talk to a theripist about it.

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