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Diane - crack me up with the "burning ceremony" comment, too funny! Um, YEA I would say there was some info. that was not disclosed to you. They made our girls seem so easy going, not really "effected" by stuff etc. After we got out of presentation, we thought "wow, that went well" we should have suspected something at that point (i.e. too good to be true). Not joking and probably repeating myself here, but literally 5 minutes into car ride we KNEW that without a doubt there was lack of disclosure. I guess you could call what we decided to do a "disruption" but we did it with the best intentions, meaning we didn't want bonding/attachment to start. Honestly, I feel disheartened about the "process" of the foster system right now. I told my husband I am not sure if I have the courage to go there again and not sure if we are blacklisted either... who knows... it's just really frustrating sometimes!
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