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I am trying to keep their feelings in concideration as well as my birthmoms and sometimes it's hard, I guess because I need to know my birthmom for me too. We always have a big family get together on Christmas Eve at our house, and we are doing it again this year, my mom asked if I was inviting my birthmom and I said no. I kind of feel it would be like putting a cat in a room full of german shepards, does that make sense? We are having my birthmom come out Christmas morning so she can spend time with us and watch her granddaughter open presents and have breakfast with us. This way everyone is included without making anyone uncomfortable. My daughters birthday in January and that is the first event where everyone is invited so I hope it all goes well. My mom wants to go out to lunch with my birthmom before then, I just hope my dad comes around, he won't talk about any of this. I know this is hard but it will all work in the end, it has too. Aura
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