Thank you for the sage advice! I think I will try to keep Dexter as a foster....
http://img.makeupalley.com/0/3/7/4/403013.jpeg (How could I ever say goodbye to this face?)
I probably should keep Cameron too as they are bonded, though from different litters, but am not so sure about caring for two special needs cats in addition to my foster children. We go to Petsmart for Adoption Days Sunday, so hopefully whoever decides to adopt Tinytim (and someone will - he is freaking adorable) will also open their heart to Cameron, since he really should stay with one of his brothers. Fingers are crossed...
I did find a great 4 bedroom, 3.5 bath townhouse in a kid-filled neighborhood, and hope to move in early January from my one bedroom apartment (my rent will only go up $40!), and also found matching desk and desser, both with hutches, at Salvation Army! Just need a bed and linens and I'll be ready to welcome one child into my home...hopefully I'll find some equally cute stuff there again soon for one of the other bedrooms.
This is getting exciting!