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Pinkheart,
I hear your voice loud and clear. Your sense tells you that the birthfather and/or his family may be trouble. It happens. Keep in mind that his parental rights have been terminated. You don't owe them contact. You may believe that it would be best for your son to have contact at some point. You may not. Regardless, my advice is to hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Get an adoption professional and your attorney on board. That way if anything does happen, you're prepared. Hopefully that will take some of the pressure off you and help you let go of the fear.
Hang in there!
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JPDakota
"If you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth." - Sherlock Holmes
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