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Thank you all for all of the advice I will calm my jets and try to move on and not worry so much and if something happens that he wants contact or info he can get it from a third party or birthmom. I know I am overprotective and I now that for the birthmom she need to talk about it and to help her deal and I want her to be healthy and able to express her feeling and we need to just talk to her when we see her. I want her to have a relationship with baby and I don't want her to feel she did something wrong if she needed to get this out but we just wanted to be informed a little sooner since it kind of effects us if we get any contact with the birthfatherEtc. The adoption is final and he is not going anywhere and we are not either and I want to keep us as close as we can be with the birthmom and open communication and I don't want her to feel she was wrong to talk if that is what she needs I love her so much and without her we would not have our baby and I would not be a mom at this point in my life.
Thanks to all of the post.
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