[cathy102]

If this birthfather had problems in the past but you are not sure if he does now. Why are you so worried about him making contact? We don't have any contact with either of my kids birthfather's (not my choice). But I know they could probably find out about our information some how but I will not be threatened in any way by them wanting to know how the kids are doing. This guy may not of been around during the pregnancy but you can't tell me he doesn't care about the baby he conceive. He may just want to know how the baby is doing. He may even NEVER contact you. So I would just stop worrying and take it one day at a time..