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Well, I think stepping back and not worrying is a good first step. I mean.. if all else fails.. the birthmom can just give copies of her photos to the birthfather and you wont have to contact at all. KWIM?
Do you have a right to live in peace? YES! But it doesnt sound like that has been violated.
You know, really, she HAS to talk about it... This stuff can really just eat you up inside and her friends are definately a good place to turn for support. Keeping secrets can really tear a person up.
I would just tell her that you understand that she has talked about it.. but that you dont want contact with anyone else.
If she and he are talking.. if he wants information, then she can always pass those milestones on.
I hope you know, No one can take your baby from you-- you dont have to be worried about that.
-- Remember that past issues CAN be resolved (AKA grow up...) and that the issue of the adoption etc is between him and her.
Last edited by numbr1dbcksfan : 12-02-2005 at 09:46 AM.
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