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I hope that this will not angry anyone but we are afraid of the some of the babies birthfamliy will try to contact us because of her placing the child with us. We know from the birth mom saying some people were upset with her placing the baby up for adoption birthdad etc his famliy. He had full notice and full notice by law but failed to do anything. I'm not judging him but from what birthmom has said he called her some terrible names when she told him of her adoption plans and the next day his family called and that was several months ago and we are afraid if they know were the baby is placed that we do not want any trouble now.I realize in the future when the time is right that the baby has every right to know who the birth parents are but i don't want any surprises before we are able to explain to our child.please advise if i'm wrong in feeling this way and want pur privacy????
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