[pinkheart]

We have a open adoption with a family member and we just found out that she has told some people so info regarding our adoption that we both agree we would keep to ourselves unless we all talked before telling anyone. She promised and so did we that we would not tell anyone this info unless we all agreed. Now we find out she has told at least three people that we do not trust. We are so upset that we don't know what to do. We feel like we have been stabbed inthe back.I feel that if we can't trust her with our agreement then what????? We we planning to see her and my family but we are so mad I can't think of seeing or being in the same room. My husband is so upset we both cannot believe it. I have spoken with my parents and they respect our wishes to not see her right now and to see if time will calm us all down??? It that to harsh not to see her this trip we are just so hurt.