[GRKinWisc]

Toothfairy;

If you need a good argument, take the approach with attachment issues. I have done some research while obtaining my counseling degree on Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It doesn't affect the younger children and their parents as much as the older children 21/2 +. But, it is crucial to have that time to make that solid attachment to any age child. They have already been through so much already and they need to know who you are (their mommy) and that the other person (child care giver) is NOT yet another mom. There is a lot of info on RAD if you need references! Regardless, IMO, it may be helpful to have read up on it before you travel! They are going through quite a bit with different faces, new sounds, different schedules, foods, etc. etc. They do react to these changes at any age!

Best of luck with your situation!

GRK