Kategal11-
Your family sounds a lot like ours, we have three kids 9,6, and 3 and are in the beginning stages of adopting from Ethiopia. I have similar concerns about an adopted child feeling very different from his or her siblings, as our current children all look alike. We are planning to eventually adopt more than one child from Ethiopia, which I hope will help. Luckily we do have beautiful diversity where we live.
Best wishes for growing your family-
Lexa
