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Originally Posted by mom2GRLC
Besides, relationships do change with time, just as people change....sometimes you need more contact other times you need a break and less contact.
I wouldn't pass up the right child...just to try and keep things equal between all my kids. That would be impossible. Life isn't fair...life isn't equal....you just have to take what life hands you and do your best.
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Amen!
The bottom line is that all relationships are different and we cannot protect our kids from the differences in their birthfamilies. Nor should we. It is their reality whether it is pretty or not.