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I have a 3 year old bio son and we just brought Mia home at 5 months. In general, not even considering the whole attachment issue(s), I am finding two kids - a toddler and infant, a very difficult adjustment for everyone - my son, me, my husband. Babies are a huge adjustment - wonderful, but a major life change. I cannot imagine adopting two (baby and toddler) together and handling that, plus the attachment on top of that. Just my honest opinion. I would bond with the baby first and then think about adding a sibling. Good luck!
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Shelbydog
Bio son 5/6/02
Agency 3/5/05
HS Visit & Interview 3/20-29/05
I600A 3/18/05, Prints 4/8/05
HS INS 4/22
State Auth 4/29
Consulate 4/30
Doss Agency 5/20
171H 5/21
Dossier Translate 5/23
GIRL! Born 6/1/05
Accepted 6/7/05
POA Guat 6/16
DNA Match 6/30
FC Interview 7/22
Preapp 8/4
Visit 8/4-8/8 
FC Out 8/11/05
In PGN 8/12/05
Kickout 8/26/05
Resub PGN 8/26/05
OUT 9/8/05
PINK 9/21/05
HOME 9/29/05!!
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