[blessedbybug]

I would go ahead and send the cards... as a part of it, attach a note that your hopes are that you will be adding to your family soon. I know it's a lot of work, but how special would she feel if you sent out a pic of her, announcing her official arrival??? This waiting game is so hard, but I live with the theory that you go with what you know...if it changes, so be it... hoping your Holidays are special with a new little girl in your family!